{"id":7350,"date":"2020-09-09T14:47:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T12:47:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/greatpeopleinside.com\/?p=7350"},"modified":"2020-09-09T14:47:06","modified_gmt":"2020-09-09T12:47:06","slug":"no-respect-for-working-schedule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/greatpeopleinside.com\/fi\/no-respect-for-working-schedule\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Do When Your Boss Doesn&#8217;t Respect Your Working Schedule"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When trying to balance your work and family commitments, it helps to have a boss\nwho is understanding and supportive: someone who doesn\u2019t raise an eyebrow when\nyou sign off early to attend a school event or take a personal day to accompany\none of your parents to a doctor\u2019s appointment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if your manager isn\u2019t sympathetic to your familial responsibilities? Or worse, your boss is outright dismissive or even hostile toward your obligations? This is particularly challenging during the pandemic when many people\u2019s work and home lives have collided. How should you handle a boss who refuses to acknowledge the other demands on your time? How can you find room for flexibility? What should you say about your family commitments? And who should you turn to for moral and professional support?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Career coaches at Work It Daily have discovered certain patterns. At this moment, employee frustration is at an all-time high. Workers are feeling fed up with their employers and wondering if the grass could be greener elsewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While pay and opportunity for growth remain the top two reasons people claim they want to find a new job, the research done by Work It Daily shows that what ultimately pushes a person to seek a new job is feeling disrespected by their boss. Think of it this way: most professionals enjoy a job search about as much as they enjoy having an invasive dental operation. In order to put in the extra time and energy to switch jobs, the pain has to be really bad. When job seekers have gone the Work It Daily coaches they have complained about their manager&#8217;s lack of respect. If you don&#8217;t have the respect you want, it&#8217;s because you allowed your boss to treat you a certain way. From your first interaction with your boss until now, you have set the tone for how you&#8217;re perceived in the role. The good news is, you can change this. But to do so, you have to recognise the signs that your manager doesn&#8217;t respect you.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Know your rights<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>First things first, \u201cknow your rights\u201d and understand what you\u2019re entitled to in terms of paid leave and care options, says Thompson. Do some research into your company\u2019s policies and whether there are alternative work arrangements on offer. Long before the pandemic hit, an increasing number of organisations instituted flexible work plans for employees, and many states have flex-work policies in place for their government workers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find out, too, if your situation qualifies you for the federal\u00a0Families First Coronavirus Response Act. The law requires some employers to provide paid leave to workers who must care for someone subject to quarantine or a child whose day care or school is closed. Washington recommends talking to your company\u2019s HR person, if you have one, to learn what options and accommodations are available to you. \u201cKnowledge is power,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Exhibit empathy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Next, summon compassion. It\u2019s not easy to be a boss, especially right now.\nMany managers are under pressure. \u201cThey\u2019re stressed, anxious, and struggling to\ndo more with less,\u201d says Washington. Consider the situation from their\nperspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thompson says your empathy should be both \u201cgenuine and strategic.\u201d Ask your manager about their pain points. Find out where their worries lie. Be sincere \u2014 show you care about them as a human being \u2014 and be tactical. Ask about their \u201cobjectives and the metrics they need to hit,\u201d she says. \u201cYou\u2019ll get important information about what they\u2019re concerned about\u201d which will help you sharpen your focus in terms of the work you prioritise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Develop more than one plan<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you \u201cunderstand what\u2019s top of mind\u201d for your manager, you can frame\nyour plans for getting your job done in a way helps them achieve their goals\nand objectives, says Thompson. Focus on results.&nbsp;When you\u2019re a caregiver,\nyour schedule can often be unpredictable so it\u2019s important to make a plan as\nwell as several contingency ones. Address your manager\u2019s \u201cinsecurities about\nyou not pulling your weight\u201d by demonstrating that you\u2019re \u201cmaking arrangements\nto get your work done.\u201d You want your manager to come away from your\nconversations thinking, \u201cThey\u2019ve got this.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t be shy about reminding your manager of your track record for delivering on expectations, adds Washington. \u201cYour past performance is the strongest indicator of your future performance,\u201d she says. Hopefully, your manager will come to see \u201cthat what\u2019s most important is not <em>how<\/em> the job gets done, but that it gets done.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Articulate boundaries<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If your boss is a face time tyrant, it can be tough to establish boundaries,\nbut it\u2019s still important to do. We all need time in our day that\u2019s off-limits\nfor work, says Washington. \u201cIf 6 pm is when you have dinner and put the kids\ndown,\u201d so be it. \u201cHave those boundaries \u2014 and let your boss know that you will\nbe unavailable then.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if your manager continues to be disrespectful of your family time, you need to have a conversation. Frame the discussion around\u00a0you\u00a0\u2014 how you prefer to structure your workday and how and when you perform best. Explain that you need your non-work hours to regroup and take care of your family commitments. Without that time away from work, you will not be able to fully devote yourself to your job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><strong>Take care of yourself<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Working for someone who doesn\u2019t respect your life outside of work can be\nexhausting so make sure you\u2019re taking time for yourself. Be purposeful about\ngiving yourself \u201ca forced mental break,\u201d says Thompson. Make time to read,\ncook, dance, run, meditate \u2014 or any other activity that you enjoy or helps you\nrelax. \u201cSchedule joy,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And even if exercise isn\u2019t usually your thing, Thompson suggests finding time for it every day, especially during this difficult period. \u201cDon\u2019t underestimate the power of 20-30 minutes of daily physical activity,\u201d she says. At a time when your boss is being difficult and \u201cnothing feels in your control,\u201d getting your endorphins pumping should be a priority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t let a lack of respect from your boss hold you back from achieving your goals. Learn how to interact better so you can get what you need to succeed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Given our current situation knowing that your colleagues or employees are best suited for this new scenario we find ourselves in. Finding the right talent, the best fit for the job and your organisation can be a very challenging task. It is now important to find out whether your managers or your team is well-equipped of working together from various locations. It requires deep knowledge of their personalities, strengths, weaknesses, interests, work style and other characteristics. Our technology and solutions will do the work for you, helping you discover if your people are resilient during times of hardship, if they are autonomous, if they are team players, without actual human contact. Given that our platform is cloud-based, everyone can use it from home as  well. Humanity finds itself at a crossroad for various reasons now, why not help people discover and develop themselves from the comfort of their own homes?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Request a\u00a0free demo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/greatpeopleinside.com\/free-demo\/\"><img src=\"http:\/\/greatpeopleinside.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/B_txt_14.png\" alt=\"B_txt_14\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> Sources:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em> https:\/\/www.inc.com\/jt-odonnell\/7-warning-signs-your-boss-disrespects-you.html <br> https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/09\/when-your-boss-doesnt-respect-your-family-commitments<br> https:\/\/www.drcaitlinfaas.com\/blog\/how-to-get-your-boss-to-respect-your-boundaries <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When trying to balance your work and family commitments, it helps to have a boss who is understanding and supportive: someone who doesn\u2019t raise an eyebrow when you sign off early to attend a school event or take a personal day to accompany one of your parents to a doctor\u2019s appointment. 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