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(This article is a part of a series; please start here<\/a>)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Your Mind and You are two different things<\/strong>. Any other part of your body hurting, you would say “my body part<\/em> is hurting”. It is only with the mind that you say “I<\/em><\/strong> am hurting”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Have you ever been overwhelmed by a feeling of dread, only to scan the near future and find nothing to explain that? It happens to me in the morning, usually. This is one of the many tricks in the mind’s arsenal. What happens is we surrender to the mood without questioning its validity.<\/span><\/p>\n

But a bad mood is just that: a transient state of the mind. Brains have a way of taking over that other organs don’t. You just have to identify that for what it is: a state of one organ. Important, powerful, useful, but an organ nonetheless.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can start by dis-identifying Yourself from Mind. Instead of simply surrendering and saying “I am anxious \/ furious \/ stressed out<\/em>” switch to naming your feeling<\/strong>: “I feel anxiety \/ fury \/ stress<\/em>“. This trick helps putting some distance between The Whole You and whatever happens inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

Next, start calling out the perpetrator: “My mind is making me feel anxiety \/ fury \/ stress<\/em>“. If you can, take a step back mentally and “see” your mind playing its little tricks.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stop identifying yourself with the workings of your mind. Take a step back. Cool down. It is the most direct way of replacing reaction<\/strong> with response<\/strong>.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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By\u00a0Catalin Octavian Blaga – Trainer Great People Inside<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Trainer who turns business experience and psychology into impacting training programs… and more! \u00a0You can find out more about Catalin by clicking here<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(This article is a part of a series; please start here) Your Mind and You are two different things. Any other part of your body hurting, you would say “my body part is hurting”. It is only with the mind that you say “I am hurting”. Have you ever been overwhelmed by a feeling of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3301,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[16,38],"tags":[92,73,90,89,100,69,91,76,99],"yoast_head":"\nDealing With Stress, Step 4: You Are Not Your Mood<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"A bad mood is just that: a transient state of the mind. 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